Welcome to Youth Realities

Youth Realities is a youth-led charity based in Barnet, addressing teenage relationship abuse through creative education and specialist, survivor-centred support.

Youth Realities
Our Vision

Our vision is a world where young people live free from relationship abuse and violence.

Our mission is to end relationship abuse and violence by working with young people to provide specialist spaces for prevention, intervention and healing.

Everything we do is ‘youth-led’ and ‘survivor-centred’ which means we centre the needs and experiences of young people and survivors, providing regular opportunities for them to feedback, co-produce and lead on the delivery, design and development of the charity.

Our values, embedded in the heart of our work are: youth-led, survivor-centred, safe, equitable and audacious.

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Youth Realities

What Should Love Look Like?

We have created a guide all about healthy relationships, are you in one, how to have one and how to know it’s not one. ‘What should love look like?’ is a guide, designed to empower young people with the knowledge to recognise abusive behaviours and foster healthy relationships, tailored for individuals aged 11-25. The guide is intended for young people to complete independently, with a friend or trusted adult but it also comes with a group facilitation guide for professionals that want to use it with groups of young people. The guide is also available in romanian.

Bespoke Workshops

Training and consultancy for professionals

1:1 Support (YPIDVA)

Wellbeing Workshops

Targeted domestic and relationship abuse, sexual violence and exploitation advocacy support for young survivors aged between 11-25 living or studying in Barnet and surrounding boroughs.

Youth Realities

Our Aims

Reduce abuse within teenage relationships
Increase awareness of & challenge abuse through education
Empower young people’s personal development & growth
Provide specialist advocacy and trusted support for young survivors.
How we
Support
our young people

In a recent survey all our young people described feeling scared and vulnerable coming into our services with:

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saying they had a poor/OK knowledge of healthy relationships.

After using our services:

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felt helped and that their situation had improved

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felt their understanding of what a healthy relationship is had improved.
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of 889 students learnt more about domestic abuse from our Deepin Relationships workshops

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of 889 students would recommend Deepin Relationships workshops to a friend or family member

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of young women who completed their 1:1 YPVA support in 2022 reported an increase to their safety and
wellbeing

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of young women who completed their 1:1 YPVA support in 2022 reported a ‘good’ or ‘excellent’ experience
with the service

Love doesn't hurt

Do you no longer feel safe and happy in your relationship?

Sometimes we feel a little unsure about our relationships, maybe something has changed and you aren’t as happy as you used to be, are scared and feel as though you’re ‘walking on eggshells’.

Sometimes, we know exactly what we are experiencing, but we just don’t know what to do next.

to help you understand relationship abuse better, visit our Need Support section.

What Our Young People Say

"My Support Worker has been the best - she’s been so supportive, comforting and understanding of everything I’ve been through. She’s helped me come such a long way and I’m so grateful."
“I was a victim of domestic violence between the ages of 16 and 17, my experience was extremely traumatic. Youth Realities took me in and transformed my story of being a victim to being a survivor; provided me with endless life changing opportunities... they without a doubt saved my life and helped me come back on track.”
“My Support Worker has helped me and guided me so much, no matter how many times I say thank you, it could never be enough! I have learnt so much. I couldn't be prouder of myself.”
“The ongoing support provided is amazing, I wouldn’t change anything it’s extremely helpful and effective.”
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